Who Are the Real Fetish People?
by Thor S. - Collanter
What is a real fetish and fetishist? Can you call yourself a fetishist, when
you like to go in special shops, and buy cool clothing? When you put on
these clothes, and enter the fetish parties and events, only to meet other
cool and liberal people? I'm sure that among the visitors and models at the
events, there are real fetishists. Othervice they wouldn't have been there.
But isn't a fact that the fashion business are using fetish teams in their
collections, and the followers who always need too feel "in" and "hip", buy
this clothes and suddenly think that they are fetishists ? Typical urban
followers who lack the capability of think themselves, catch up in what the
real in-crowd are wearing, and reading the magazines, so they know what to
wear the next week.
This people, together with well paid glamour models who take modelling jobs
at the fetish events, and then create an image for themselves, are probably
not the real fetish crowd. I would like to hear some of the fetish models be
real honest about what turns them on. Image and fashion sells, and they
follow the stream where there are money to make. That makes sense. Some of
the models have actually entered the fetish scene, before they created a
fetish model image, and then I think their fetish sounds a lot more
convincing.
Anyway, it's nice for all who enjoys various types of fetish photos that the
models really go into these things. It's a lot more exciting to see
worshipping of beautiful models feet, than the more ordinary ones among the
real fetishists. A real Norwegian female foot fetishist , says in an article
in Norwegian Lek Magazine, that she only get turned on by men that thinks
legs and feet are sexy. She doesn't get turned on by ordinary foreplay, only
when the guy caress her feet, licking and sucking her toes. According to her
opinion, feet are as sexier as an erected penis. The men that don't
understand this, she don't bother to spend any time with. She says that real
fetishists are quiet about their sexuality. They get turned on by others
with the same real thing, and don't have any use for the "amateur
fetishists".
I think we all have some fetish in us. You can be turned on by a sexy foot
or clothing, but you have a normal sex life anyway. Your fetish, or whatever
turns you on, can be used as a foreplay or help to get in the mood. If you
have a weakness for the female foot, then you will use any possibility to
take a peek at your colleagues, neighbour, friend or a unknown woman's feet.
It's just the same drift that makes others to check out butts, breast hands
and so on. So why stigmatize fetishism and make it a deviant's behaviour?
Here in the more northern countries, the autumn is here and the ladies put
on their nylons. It's not a bad thing for anyone who likes to see a classy
female leg or foot, wrapped around by nylon in any colour.
About the Author
Thor S. is 40 years old and from Norway. He is behind the upcoming online
magazine Collanter Magazine and Journal ( http://www.collanter.com/ ). His
blog Collanter Journal, will be a part of this magazine.
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